Tuesday, December 31, 2013

War of Sexes!!

The routine never ends, it begins with; love, hate, hate, love, it never ends. Sometimes its a triangle, the other times its not. I'm here to talk about those other times when its not a love triangle. When you are just paying for the sins of another. Welcome to the war of the sexes were all that glitters is never gold.
Mike a 19years old undergraduate, falls for the most beautiful girl in his department, he toasts her and she says 'yes' to him on the basis that he is tall and has the most comfortable off-camp apartment in the entire school. They get to the third level of the programme, he's now 21years and she's 20, she breaks up with him because she has met better guys who could take care of her needs (or should i say wants), Mike is heart broken, what does he do? He swears never to love another woman,and guess who is the next girl to be his date? 'Innocent' Rita.
Rita happens to be really in love with him. He didn't trust her, so he built an impermeable wall around himself,how on earth was she suppose to go out with a guy who had written down the start and finish of the relationship. So she's heart broken and this bundle of cliches continues.
The guys blame the babes and the babes blame the guys, who really is at fault? Who really should not be trusted? Why do people keep asking; why do good guys meet bad girls and vice versa...
My advice is this, the only way to end this cycle of hurt is to STOP GETTING INTO A RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU ARE LONELY, BECAUSE YOU'LL BE FEEDING THE CYCLE WITH SUBSTRATES. GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOU ARE PREPARED AND READY TO LOVE.
When you know this is the person you really need. Stop leaving strands of broken hearts behind because of the sins of another, else you'll be just a coward because you will be lashing out on the wrong person and you are evil in a naive and ignorant kind of way owing to the fact that you are helping to build a cycle of broken spirits, loathing minds, and a mutated generation

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